Afternoon of Life

Carl Jung called the age between 56-83 the afternoon of life. For some of us, it is even later in the evening. I also think of the Daughtry song “September.” Whether our metaphor is the day or the year, we recognize time is passing. We are acutely aware of this, yet there is still time for joy and meaning. 

With aging, we notice cognitive changes, in ourselves, or perhaps in our partners or friends. We ask ourselves, is this the beginning of dementia? Seems as if when we have seen a relative suffer from Alzheimer’s or other dementia, we are even more likely to interpret memory lapses, or lost keys as frightening signs.

Questions come to mind: 

Is this dementia? Or normal aging?

Is my partner starting to get Alzheimer’s Disease? Am I?

This site will not answer the question for you, of course, but it is a place for thoughts and feelings around the general topic.

It is true that I’m a clinical psychologist, but I am not writing as a professional, but as a person who has concerns about self and others. This is only a personal reflection which may foster your own reflection.

Disclaimer: I have no advice for diagnosis or treatment. Consulting with a qualified professional for an individualized plan or diagnosis is common sense. Fortunately, clinicians in this field seem to be exceptionally caring, so you are likely to receive assistance, support, and information. 

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